Sex & Hanging Lives

 Living alone is a bit of a thrill. There are no rules. No strings attached to it. But one day it will turn into a loneliness which will make you the loneliest person you've ever known. It could be in the 30's, 40's or 50's. When you've been fed up with your isolation, it'll motivate you to find someone to erase your loneliness. That day, you're going to make a decision to let someone come into your life just because you feel lonely. You're going to get opinions from your parents , friends, and all about marriage, but then you're going to get married to someone that has reached the outsider's expectations, not yours. Some people claim that their only aim in marriage is to carry children. Some people would say they can't survive on their own until they die. Some people are trying to argue that the parent won't be with us forever, so there should be someone to look after you, and even other excuses.

But what if someone has to go for a marriage, even if he or she loves to spend time alone, free, without any commitments, in their very own world? Does he or she going to live happily?

Especially if he or she is married for several reasons, even if not their wish, he or she may have a happy marriage and a good sexual life with care and love until he or she finds this unique one and only person who can not describe by words. Yet they feel a comfortable connection, and they need to embrace and hug them around with that particular loved one. Surprisingly, both of them will be in the same frequency of passion. That's the peak. the spark. But, unfortunately, he or she can't love them as much as they want, so their partner is going to become a barrier. Then they trapped in two realms and even try to be open to their spouse, they can not because they're scared of losing their partner.   They're scared that losing someone will pull you to the ground, it will destroy you emotionally. Because of the fear, they're starting to cover their own emotions. They live with a mask, and they claim to be someone else. And suffer till they die. and that's the story of majority of people in our country. 

In reality, can a marriage limit your love for one person?

If you've found love and sex in one individual, you're lucky. And don't waste it. But if you've discovered love and sex in two separate individuals, what are you supposed to do? And what if you're not interested in marriage, but you still have to do it anyway?

And the most important thing is that if you are a person who loves being alone without attachments,  never go for a marriage only because of the pressure of society or your family. Just go for it  whenever you are ready.